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About 25% of adolescents say that they could have done better in school and 10% say they have a lot of trouble paying attention. Most say this because they had a bad term, a tough course, a bad teacher, they were not interested at the time, or they did not follow a plan. Others notice they "mess up" a lot in school. Some of these kids who "mess up" a lot or can't pay attention might have a learning disability.
Some points need emphasizing even though you may have heard them many times before. First, look for your strengths. Build on your strengths. Start working with adults who can help you build on these strengths.
Second, turn to adults for help and advice. Adults want you to succeed. You are the next generation. If you ask, you will find adults who will try to help you with your problems. Using their own experiences, they can offer advice about things that worked and things that didn't. They may put you in touch with someone who could help you build on your strengths. They may help you make contacts for future jobs.
Third, use tools that assist you in overcoming your weaknesses. Some people just can't calculate well. They need a calculator. Some can't spell well. They need a dictionary or a spell-checker. Modern technology can help people overcome weaknesses.
Fourth, think smart about school. School is a way society prepares kids for jobs. So look ahead and think about your strengths. Use the classroom work to build upon and shape your natural abilities and talents. Write down your plan for the next few years. Check your plan against what you are doing now. Change your plan as you get a better view of the future and a better feeling about who you are and what you do best. Most importantly, go over your plan with adults you can trust. Listen to what they say. You may not always agree, but always listen.
Finally, remember that "school" is for your whole life. Modern work requires us to learn to grow. ** What ** you learn in school may not be as important as ** how ** you learn in school. School develops certain life skills that are very important. Such skills are learning to ask questions, listening to what is being said, changing your actions if necessary, and checking yourself to see how you are doing. These abilities need to grow with you as you go along.
As an adult, you can bet that you will be taking classes. In the future it may not matter as much if you went to college; it will matter whether you are continuing to learn.
By now you have been in school for 6-12 years. You have taken tests to see that your hearing and vision are not a cause of school problems. Tests have been performed to see how you do compared to how well the test says you could do. If you are still having troubles, here are several explanations that may be useful.
Talk to a doctor, your parents or the school counselor about these problems.
Schools have a lot of ways to help you. Take advantage of them while you are there.
We have tried to make the How's Your Health error-free. However, those involved in its preparation can not warrant that all of the information is accurate and complete. When you use How's Your Health as a guide for your health and medical care, be sure to discuss any questions about it with your doctor, nurse, or other health care worker.
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Last reviewed: January 2023 © 1997-2023 FNX Corporation and Trustees of Dartmouth College. All Rights Reserved.